Ok, so you have spotted a girl who is attractive to you on the other side of the bar. You aren’t up for a ‘one night stand’ and instead you want to see if you can get her on a date. What do you do? Well, you need to go up to her and talk to her. Once you have talked to her you need to get that telephone number and then give her a call! The problem is, there are very few people out there that know how do that. Don’t fret though, in this article I am going to teach you how to talk to girls and then to get her number in the end! Let’s dive straight in.
A word of warning here, before you approach a girl you should check and then double check again that she is actually alone! You don’t want some random guy coming up to you saying that you are hitting on his girlfriend right? Now that is out of the way you can actually commence your ‘act’.
Firstly go up to there and introduce yourself. Offer to shake her hand or even buy her a drink. If she snubs you then cut your losses. You will only have a chance of getting a phone number from a girl if she actually talks back to you. Never under any circumstances should you use cheesy chat up lines on a girl who you want to ask for her phone number, it will give the wrong impression to start with and that is not what you want.
If she talks back then great! You can pursue the conversation. You can take this in any direction that you want and hopefully you should find that the conversation flows pretty easily. You should start by asking her basic questions about her life e.g. where she works or studies and then move onto other things. I can’t really tell you what to say however you should bear in mind that you are the one starting the conversation and thus you should be the one keeping the conversation flowing. Two tips here, try not to talk about yourself too much (she needs to know that you are interested in her) and the second tip is to make sure that you use open questions only. This is the best way to find out more about her and establish that rapport.
After you have talked to her for a while and you feel as though the rapport is there you can ask her if she wants to carry the conversation on some other time. If she says yes then you will have her phone number. If she says no then don’t worry too much, there are plenty of other fish in the sea!
Remember, if a conversation isn’t going well i.e. she doesn’t seem interested then I suggest that you cut your losses and move on. There is no point wasting your time talking to a girl that is highly unlikely to want to be with you. There are plenty more fish in the sea and there will be plenty of attractive ladies in that room that do want to give you their phone number, you just have to go and seek them out! If she does give you her phone number then she is seriously interested, don’t forget to give her a call!