Of course, as a Boston resident you are going to be incredibly hip. No doubt you will know all of the best bars and clubs to go to in order to hook up with the hottest ladies. Whilst many people don’t expect a long term relationship from a bar hook up, you may get lucky. It seems that people’s confidence is at an all-time high when they are in these places, and they are most likely to try out the cheesiest lines. The problem you have here though is that people aren’t really looking into a long term relationship, and you shouldn’t really expect one. This is because you are not going to really have anything in common (unless you get incredibly lucky that is!). Many of the girls may also feign interest as they are after a cheap night out, buy them drinks and they have what they want, they won’t be going home with you at the end of the night. However, Boston Bars and Clubs are great for a confidence boost to prove to yourself that you know how to ‘flirt’, this is probably one of the first stages in which you are going to have to get over. You may find that you have better success meeting girls if you go to a bar that is to ‘your tastes’. There is no use going to a bar in Boston which caters for the dance crowd such as An Tua Nua if you are more into cocktails and ‘upper class’ bars, where ‘Eastern Standard’ should suit your needs well.
Walking through the city on a bright and beautiful day will have a lot of people standing around watching a plethora of street performers, or perhaps there will be a lovely young lady sitting alone in a coffee shop. Why not strike up a conversation with them? This is probably one of the first hurdles that you need to jump over in order to secure that girl of your dreams, get talking to them in these situations and you never know what might happen! You may think it is a little odd to randomly start chatting like this, but that is how a great deal of relationships start. The worst that can happen is she ignores you, but who cares? Boston is a massive place, you most likely won’t see her again.
One of the best ways in which you can hook up with people is taking a class of some description. This is great because instantly you and the female will have a common interest that you can bond over. They will be more than happy to start talking about it, and ask them out for a coffee some time! There are plenty of classes being held all over Boston, so check out a list and find what one is going to be best for you.
Hopefully this has been of some use to you! Now go forth and meet girls. Honestly, no matter how ‘unconfident’ you are, there is a girl out there for you. Strike up as many conversations as possible, and I am sure you will find the ‘girl of your dreams’